In an age of high divorce rates, it is important to know what is involved in being married. The I Do’s and I Won'ts of Marriage is an easy to read book to be shared and discussed together for those contemplating marriage or who are already married. It is a to-the–point book about how to have a successful marriage by respecting, loving, and communicating with one another. It gives some "prerequisites, some do’s and some won’ts" for both individuals involved in the commitment of marriage. There are practical ideas, as well as advice to keep your marriage alive and to help repair it if it is starting to "crumble." It is a keepsake on which to reflect. It is a must read for those who are thinking of taking the step into marriage.

Joan Rush was born in Frederick, Maryland, in 1955. She has always been active in helping others through her church activities and jobs. She has been a playground instructor, library clerk, custodian, Lay Speaker, hypnotherapist, tutor, author, and Independent Nikken Distributor. She has been teaching elementary and special education for 24 years. She received her bachelor’s degree from Frostburg State College, her Master’s in Communicative Disorders from Johns Hopkins University, and her Hypnotherapist Certification through the Hypnodene Foundation. She attends seminars and conferences to keep her involved in learning. She has learned a lot through her years of experience. She is an observer of people and an excellent listener. She enjoys writing, photography, making multi-media lessons, traveling, and camping. One of her goals in life is to "Help Make Positive Life Changes!" She hopes her books help to do this.

PREREQUISITE:
Know thyself-
Who you are. What you want out of life.
What you are willing to give and receive in a life-long relationship.

I Do
Court your spouse.
Plan something special. Remember how excited you used to get when you were planning or getting ready for a date? Surprise your spouse by inviting him/her on a date – make sure you have him/her check his/her calendar first. Don’t just say, "We’re going out tonight," only to find out the spouse has an unscheduled meeting. Use common sense and "be in love" again.